The following files contain lists of information that you can use to determine the appropriate contract number converted by ONRR that you can enter in the ONRR-2014 form. If necessary, refer to the layout of CSV/ASCII records. Note: The contract number must be written in capital letters. Ok, finally we come to the fourth agreement: always do your best. In other words,. They will ruin everything and violate these agreements. It is ok! I appreciate your comment. Thank you for your kind words. Not taking things personally and not making assumptions is very closely related because the two are based on our own reality. If you can accept that other people have different realities than yours (based on their beliefs, experiences, etc.), you can begin to see that their words and actions are about them, not you. This applies to both agreements because they go hand in hand. We assume we know what people are thinking, and then we customize it to do it about us.
If you`re waiting for a text from someone and they`re not coming, you might think it`s because they`ve met someone else. It`s both adopted (you don`t know if they`ve met anyone) and personalized (you think it`s because you`re not good enough). They are different, but often go together. When someone withdraws, it`s more because of their own fears than because of you. If I have time, I will try to add a longer answer on my FB Live at Noon PST on Thursday. Thus… His question: “`Assumptions & Truth vs. Fantasy” in an insecure relationship, I wonder how “not being confronted with the uncomfortable truth that your partner may not want to commit to you” (so you start from other reasons) and how “mirrors for each other” are not pure personalization. You have to ask questions because the whole way we avoid asking questions leads us to accept instead.
Make sense? When we spend all our time embracing and inventing fantasies instead of dealing with the truth of a situation (not just asking, but being clear about WHY we are in this relationship where every detail about the position of one of the two people is unclear). When it comes to mirrors – EVERYONE is a mirror to you. EACH. The things hidden in our subconscious can be revealed by looking at how we judge the behavior of others and yet we do not seek them within ourselves. That`s all – you don`t customize them at all – if you want to know more about yourself and why you`re in this position. You use them to see yourself. When you personalize, you create stories. When you personalize, you do what they do ABOUT YOU. Two different things.
Does that make sense? 🙂 Below are some examples of the layout we expect for different types of agreement numbers. When reporting royalties based on production awarded under an agreement, the contract number converted by the ONRR must be specified in addition to the lease number of Block 7 of Block 9 of the new Sales and Royalty Transfer Report (Form ONRR-2014). The agreement number consists of three parts: These cross-reference files show all previous Accounting Identification Numbers (DIAs) that identified the production assigned by an agreement. Aid numbers were used prior to October 1, 2001 and consisted of the 10-digit ONRR lease number and the 3-digit revenue source number1. IDA numbers that identified production on a rental basis are not included in these files. Note: Some rows in these reports are duplicates and some rows contain a revenue source of 000. Please ignore these lines. In part 1 of this 2-part video, we learn about the “domestication” of man and how all the rules and values of our family and society are imposed on us by a system of punishment and reward. As young children, our true nature is to love and be happy, to explore and enjoy life; we are absolutely authentic. But then we learn to be what others think we “should” be, and because it`s not acceptable for us to be who we are, we start pretending to be what we aren`t. When we are teenagers, we have learned to judge ourselves, to punish ourselves and to reward ourselves according to agreements we have never chosen.
The Four Accords help us break self-limiting agreements and replace them with agreements that bring us freedom, happiness and love. The Four Accords©, were published in 1997 and have sold approximately 9 million copies. It has been on the New York Times bestseller list for nearly a decade. Everything we do is based on agreements we have made – agreements with ourselves, with other people, with God, with life. But the most important agreements are those we make with ourselves. Dear Tracy, thank you very much for your reply. Not very “easy” for me all this. Nevertheless, I really appreciate that you took the time to help me with this. Honestly, Christina […] comes to you if you don`t take anything personally. The four chords, chapter 3 Ok, then comes the third chord: don`t make assumptions.
This is another HUGE one I see, especially with […] Thank you Tracy! I`m so grateful to have been curious to hear what you had to say when you appeared in my Facebook News Feed. Last week my husband went for alcohol and I tried not to react (again), you know, don`t let anyone get upset when he`s out of mind. As things unfold, I realize that I assumed that after losing three jobs, he would master his behavior. This is by no means my first rodeo, my first husband also turned out to be an alcoholic. I think after looking carefully at my hypothesis when I was with them. The first husband I was with for three years, the second for five years. They were on their way until I married them. Then all hell went wild, the first husband took only two years, then the second lasted 23 years before leaving the bottom. I received a note from my current husband telling me that he was throwing in the towel and that I was walking with him.
He may be trying to create drama, but I`m done. So I agreed with the situation. It`s time for a divorce! I think my question would be: Why on earth are men like this attracted even after careful consideration? I know the grass on the other side is not greener, but I know everything will be fine! Thank you Kathy Quinn 🙂 Instead of having vulnerable and difficult conversations that could turn your world upside down, you avoid them. What happens if your partner says something you don`t want to hear? What if his answer means you should leave the relationship, something you can`t stand? First of all, I want to congratulate you and thank you for your efforts to help as many people as possible through your podcasts and this blog series. . Have you ever read in texts, emails or even conversations and think you have “understood” the other person? You think you know their reason, intention, or motivation, but this assumption is based on your reality and beliefs. Yours are probably different. You believe that if someone loves you, they should automatically know how you feel and what you need. But remember – their reality is not the same as yours.
How does it coincide with what Ruiz says, that is, “Whatever people do, feel, think or say, don`t take it personally. by taking things personally, you adapt to suffering for nothing” or the respective “Nothing others do is because of you. It`s because of himself. It`s never about you” (see both in the article of the second agreement)? I read all four agreements and became somewhat skeptical. Some things were not “coherent”, i.e. not so coherent (in my opinion). When I read the last two articles on the third chord (Don`t make assumptions) and the second (Don`t take anything personally), I also became skeptical. Ruiz writes, “We make all kinds of assumptions because we don`t have the courage to ask questions.” No, it`s better to live blissfully ignorant and assume it`s because of a story you`re more comfortable with. Or maybe you believe that your love will change it – a very dangerous fantasy because you can never change another person. You must want to change yourself.
EXTENSIBILITY EXERCISE: If you find yourself accepting, challenge them by listing other possibilities. Suppose someone interrupts you in traffic and you assume that it is an aggressive and selfish asshole without friends. Challenge this assumption by saying out loud, “Maybe your child is in the hospital. Maybe their friend`s flight arrived early and they rush to the airport. Maybe there is a bee in the car and they are trying not to be stung. Maybe they just got off a track and forgot what it`s like to drive on the highway. Add a few absurd ones, just for fun. Your anger will quickly subside. In The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that deprive us of joy and cause unnecessary suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, the Four Accords offer a powerful code of conduct that can quickly transform our lives into a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.• A New York Times bestseller for more than a decade• More than 8.5 million copies sold in the United States• Translated into 46 languages worldwide But does it live completely and authentically? No, because you are operating from a place of fear rather than love.
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